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Friday, March 2, 2018
Larders
Much like the classy quote above, it's time for change.
It's been a minute I know...(that sounds like an R&B song)
I lost the zeal I had for blogging and especially weight loss blogging. This year however, that zeal came back but I'm taking a different direction. I'm going to post about anything and everything. You heard it hear first!
Please follow me on my new blog Stellah in the City and be tantalised (wtf).
It's been real
xo
ML
Friday, February 26, 2016
Dream it then... live it
Larders
How are you? I'm fine thanks.
I don't have a lot to say other than I have always been a dreamer in my life. I realised that whenever I would go for my dreams, at the first stumbling block I would see it as a sign from God that it wasn't meant to be and would give up.
Now, with weight loss & putting in the hundreds of hours in the gym, grocery store & fresh produce store I finally am yielding some results. The results didn't come easily. Losing weight is hard for various reasons. Number 1) sometimes you just don't feel like it. Sometimes I just wanna stay in bed & eat KFC, drink wine & have ice cream. Number 2) sometimes life happens. This week, I have been working so hard and long hours that I just didn't have the time to go to the gym. Number 3) saying 'no' to loved ones is hard when they are asking for a favour and this favour cuts into my gym time or meal preparation time. All these points may sound like excuses but I have realised that while losing weight (although it is crucial for me to drop a significant amount of weight) you need balance and cannot live in a bubble and isolate yourself. Balance is crucial.
I am also back to studying so that takes up my weekends. I am feeling cabin fever right now because I want to go out so badly for a glass (or two) of wine with friends but tomorrow I have to be up early to run errands, go to the gym and be rested enough to study.
Yes I know that I made the choice of chasing after my dreams and realising dreams means sacrifice and harmony.
This year is already proving to be challenging. I will make the sacrifices and I WILL win because not realising all that I have dreamed is just not good enough for me. Mediocrity does not become me. I will win. I choose to win.
Lastly, surround yourself with people who support you in the pursuit of your dreams. We are relational beings and need each other to survive. Choose the best to be in your circle.
I leave you with these words: When you choose better, you will know better. And when you know better, you will do better. Always choose better.
x
ML
How are you? I'm fine thanks.
I don't have a lot to say other than I have always been a dreamer in my life. I realised that whenever I would go for my dreams, at the first stumbling block I would see it as a sign from God that it wasn't meant to be and would give up.
Now, with weight loss & putting in the hundreds of hours in the gym, grocery store & fresh produce store I finally am yielding some results. The results didn't come easily. Losing weight is hard for various reasons. Number 1) sometimes you just don't feel like it. Sometimes I just wanna stay in bed & eat KFC, drink wine & have ice cream. Number 2) sometimes life happens. This week, I have been working so hard and long hours that I just didn't have the time to go to the gym. Number 3) saying 'no' to loved ones is hard when they are asking for a favour and this favour cuts into my gym time or meal preparation time. All these points may sound like excuses but I have realised that while losing weight (although it is crucial for me to drop a significant amount of weight) you need balance and cannot live in a bubble and isolate yourself. Balance is crucial.
I am also back to studying so that takes up my weekends. I am feeling cabin fever right now because I want to go out so badly for a glass (or two) of wine with friends but tomorrow I have to be up early to run errands, go to the gym and be rested enough to study.
Yes I know that I made the choice of chasing after my dreams and realising dreams means sacrifice and harmony.
This year is already proving to be challenging. I will make the sacrifices and I WILL win because not realising all that I have dreamed is just not good enough for me. Mediocrity does not become me. I will win. I choose to win.
Lastly, surround yourself with people who support you in the pursuit of your dreams. We are relational beings and need each other to survive. Choose the best to be in your circle.
I leave you with these words: When you choose better, you will know better. And when you know better, you will do better. Always choose better.
x
ML
Friday, January 15, 2016
New Year New Me
Larders
It's been a WHILE. But I have been busy trying to lose weight & achieve some things.
2015 ended on a good note for me. I achieved a life long goal of completing 10kms and I did it about 4 times over (thanks for the applause...don't stop). My work was very volatile but I managed to build key relationships that are paying off now. I have realised that (in my work environment) you are only as good as you were yesterday. This means that I have had to develop a spirit of excellence and constantly be at my best. To a large extent, I can say that I have. Last year also ended with a lot of lessons learned for me. I really feel like I am Oprah when it comes to my wealth of wisdom (good grief, I can blow my own horn!). I also managed to lose 17kgs in total. That's over 30 pounds lost. It has improved my quality of life some. This year I need to lose at the very least another 20kgs. Life is honestly so much easier without all the added weight to carry. What a metaphor. (see another lesson learned)
So, each year people post 'New Year, New Me' line everywhere on social media. I have grave and fundamental issues with that line. Why must people be new? Can one not resolve to adopt habits that improve the quality of life in it's totality? To me, it feels like you didn't like who you were & now suddenly you need to be someone else. I think that we can all stand to improve ourselves but hating who you are/were does no one any good. Everything you go through it to teach you a lesson and impart on someone else. Never regret where you come from but learn and choose to do/be better. I promise you, in a world where we are all forced to look like Kylie Jenner, you are cool enough to not have to contour your face that you no longer look like yourself.
With that said, there is a lot in the pipeline for me this year. As things unfold, I promise to update. This platform for me is so important and if it motivates one person to better their lives, I will know that my goal is reached. (another lesson! sheesh! Call me Lesson-Lee)
Here are some pics from a wedding I went to (first pic) & my holiday (second pic) over the festive season period.
It's been a WHILE. But I have been busy trying to lose weight & achieve some things.
2015 ended on a good note for me. I achieved a life long goal of completing 10kms and I did it about 4 times over (thanks for the applause...don't stop). My work was very volatile but I managed to build key relationships that are paying off now. I have realised that (in my work environment) you are only as good as you were yesterday. This means that I have had to develop a spirit of excellence and constantly be at my best. To a large extent, I can say that I have. Last year also ended with a lot of lessons learned for me. I really feel like I am Oprah when it comes to my wealth of wisdom (good grief, I can blow my own horn!). I also managed to lose 17kgs in total. That's over 30 pounds lost. It has improved my quality of life some. This year I need to lose at the very least another 20kgs. Life is honestly so much easier without all the added weight to carry. What a metaphor. (see another lesson learned)
So, each year people post 'New Year, New Me' line everywhere on social media. I have grave and fundamental issues with that line. Why must people be new? Can one not resolve to adopt habits that improve the quality of life in it's totality? To me, it feels like you didn't like who you were & now suddenly you need to be someone else. I think that we can all stand to improve ourselves but hating who you are/were does no one any good. Everything you go through it to teach you a lesson and impart on someone else. Never regret where you come from but learn and choose to do/be better. I promise you, in a world where we are all forced to look like Kylie Jenner, you are cool enough to not have to contour your face that you no longer look like yourself.
With that said, there is a lot in the pipeline for me this year. As things unfold, I promise to update. This platform for me is so important and if it motivates one person to better their lives, I will know that my goal is reached. (another lesson! sheesh! Call me Lesson-Lee)
Here are some pics from a wedding I went to (first pic) & my holiday (second pic) over the festive season period.
In the past couple of days, I have had a few people come up to me at the gym to say that they see a difference in my weight. I honestly didn't know that anyone notices me. I super live in my own world & never think anyone is watching. That was another lesson, someone is always watching (creepy but true) and you need to choose if they will walk away encouraged or despondent from seeing/meeting you. Every moment is a choice. Choose better & to be better.
Till next time.
x
ML
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
Seriously...I am really worried about the English language
Larders
There are people in the world that use "totes" instead of "totally" and "uzh" (I dont even know how to spell it) instead of "usually" and "awks" instead of "awkward" on day to day basis, when having a regular conversation like its a Tuesday! What is happening????
And in other news...Its Zumba today! YAY!!!
Just because I can, I took selfie of myself (duh) at the gym the other day. I struggled so much to take a proper pic. I don't know if I should be proud or embarrased of the fact that I can't take a selfie.
(this is awkward...the picture will not upload)
Lastly, this year...please commit yourself to doing more good for the world. Be kind to each other. Smile to a stranger. Make someone laugh. Be a light. We really need it. I am really disturbed by the likes of ISIS and Boko Haram.
"When the enemy comes in like a flood, God will raise a standard"
Much love
xo
ML
There are people in the world that use "totes" instead of "totally" and "uzh" (I dont even know how to spell it) instead of "usually" and "awks" instead of "awkward" on day to day basis, when having a regular conversation like its a Tuesday! What is happening????
And in other news...Its Zumba today! YAY!!!
Just because I can, I took selfie of myself (duh) at the gym the other day. I struggled so much to take a proper pic. I don't know if I should be proud or embarrased of the fact that I can't take a selfie.
(this is awkward...the picture will not upload)
Lastly, this year...please commit yourself to doing more good for the world. Be kind to each other. Smile to a stranger. Make someone laugh. Be a light. We really need it. I am really disturbed by the likes of ISIS and Boko Haram.
"When the enemy comes in like a flood, God will raise a standard"
Much love
xo
ML
Monday, January 26, 2015
Thin girl problems
Larders
How are you? I’m fine thanks.
So today I just had a real thin girl problem moment. MY
CLOTHES ARE BECOMING TOO BIG FOR ME! Please allow me this douche bag
moment….NOTHING FITS, BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS BECOMING TOO BIG! Lol (said as
condescendingly as possible).
I think I have lost two full dress sizes. By the end of
February I most likely will have lost another dress size. I love thin girl
problems. These problems I can deal with.
So last night instead of being out and about partying with
the proverbial homies, I was partying it up with Virgin Active. Yes. On a
Saturday night I was at the gym. Do you know what I discovered; nothing fuels a
work out more than anger. Remember my previous blog where I spoke about a boy?
I pictured him as I was working out and I ran the hell out of that treadmill
& swung (swinged, swang? wtf?) the
demons out of the battle rope. Two guys even came to me afterward and they said
I was a beast with the rope. I just said “it’s because I am angry” and I walked
away laughing evilly.
Then, some poor poor sod (handsome might I add) was trying
to mack on me but I was in no mood. So I just walked away from him. The male
species is not my favourite right now. But I refuse to be another angry black
woman. I’ll just be an angry black woman for three weeks then I’ll get over it.
I just need some ammunition for the gym.
Tomorrow is the third anniversary of my mother’s death. I
guess its true what they say, the pain never goes away, you just learn to live
with it.
Later
xo
ML
Thursday, January 22, 2015
Variety truly is the spice of life
Larders
So, I love having revelations about life. It makes me
excited to wake up in the morning to discover more and more about life. I still
don’t know the answer to life’s biggest question – sorry.
How are you? I’m fine thanks.
Wednesdays are my most favourite gym days because it means
that it’s Zumba. In case I haven’t mentioned this about ten thousand times
before, I love LOVE Zumba. I love to dance and move my bordy (all the while
pretending to be Beyonce – except the part where I am married to Jay Z) and all
the while I am burning excess kilojoules and getting fitter.
While I was waiting for the class to start, I started
thinking back on my day and the investigation that I have just recently
embarked on about food & fuelling my body to perform at its peak. And then
BAM! I had a revelation…. (I’m going to start preaching now but bear with me
& while we’re at it, when last did you go to church??? No judgement. Ok, maybe a little)Truly God is a God
of variety. Exhibit G…FOOD. Upon my investigation today I realised that I need
to eat different types of foods to get the different types of nutrients to get
my body to function at its optimum level. There is so much to discover food
wise & most of this comes from all natural foods. For example, I need to
eat bananas to get my fill of potassium to avoid leg cramps while I sleep in the
middle of the night (this is a major inconvenience), to build strong bones I
need to eat more dark green leafy veg (spinach – yes, yuck. I cringe at the
thought too) as it has heaps of calcium, to help my joints I need to eat
berries, coffee is to prevent me from killing my colleagues, wine is 100% vitamin everything and the list
goes on. Guess what this means for a person with short attention span like me
who hates to get bored – new discoveries when I go grocery shopping are about
to go down! This year I fully commit to finding out more about what fuel my
body needs to achieve optimally. I will share my experiences with you. I am not
a doctor (I sometimes believe I am though. I place the blame squarely on Shonda
Rhimes for creating Greys Anatomy) and what will work for me may not work for
you. This is all about experiment. Also, if you are looking for me to count
calories – turn the page. I ain’t about that life.
I would also like to further study this theory that people
should not eat fruit because fruit has sugar (duh) & sugar is bad for you.
Excuse my ignorance but don’t we need sugar for energy? In my life I have never
heard of anyone having gained weight from eating fruit…It doesn’t make sense.
HOW THE HELL MUCH FRUIT WOULD YOU EAT TO GAIN WEIGHT??? (perhaps I should as a
fruitarian. I also don’t understand what a fruitarian is but that’s a story for
another day). Completely eliminating a food group from your diet is dangerous
& WILL lead to failure. I’m all about keeping it as close to mother nature
as possible. I repeat DON’T CUT OUT FOOD GROUPS, IT IS DANGEROUS. Keep it
natural. I know it means more preparation & cooking but for those of you
who do not have time, that is what Woolworths is for.
God does not want us to get bored. He wants life to keep
interesting. So next time when things in your life aren’t going as planned just
remember its God keeping it interesting & believe me there is a lesson to
be learnt that you can also impart on others. I like to think of my life as a
theatrical drama and I am the main actor and each year I had better get an
Oscar or Emmy or Tony or whatever for playing my part LIKE. A. BAWS.
Jordin Sparks was recently quoted saying that when things
don’t go according to plan just think “plot twist”.
I would like to leave you with these words that I heard from
one of my most favourite sitcoms of all time New Girl “smile, it’s just life”
Later
Xo
ML
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Its 2015!!!! WHAT?
HelloJ
Compliments of the new year…WHAT THE FINANCIALSTATEMENTS
DOES THAT EVEN MEAN? Who thinks of these things????
How are you? I’m fine thanks
So 2014 was one EPIC year for me. I got a job that I LOVE. I
don’t struggle to wake up to go to work in the mornings at all. I love my
colleagues (even though they drive me to drink copious amounts of wine – that’s
my story and I’m sticking to it – sometimes). I have been working damn hard but
learning A LOT along the way. I think they call it upskilling (rah rah posh). I
lost 13 kgs (26 pounds) and still going strong. My eating habits have improved
significantly. I prefer a salad over pizza. I’m absolutely loving eating fruit.
I literally will crave fruit! (I know right??? I want to vomit on myself as I
am typing this). For two weeks straight I craved pineapple & when I
eventually got to eat it, I lapped it up like I just came across an oasis in
the Sahara desert after wandering for 7 straight months (yes, I am the queen of
exaggeration and that’s why you love me… right?)
So last year I committed myself to running/walking a 10km by
my birthday (October) and that did not happen. Main reason is that I was poop
scared to do it so I found every excuse under the sun to not run it. This year
I am really keen to commit to this 10km. My knee has been calm a little bit
because I haven’t been running and putting such heavy impact on it. I have been
doing pilates, Zumba, Shibam, swimming & resistance training. Granted its
only 13 days into the year but hey at least I am getting into a rhythm. I would
like to run it within the first quarter of the year – April absolute latest. I
read that doing a lot of resistance training is an epic way to drop fat faster
than cardio so I am trying that as well. I also read that if the burning/pain
sensation is still there after 24 hours it means you burnt the hell outta those
fat cell niggas. The more fat cell niggas burn the more body fat I drop the
lighter I become and boom! I can start running without placing too much
pressure on my knees.
Allow me a moment to be deep …thanks…
I feel like this time I am doing the weight loss thing
right. My head is right, I am rejecting a lot of the so called bad foods
organically. This is because I finally faced my demons towards the end of 2013
& beginning 2014. Between you and me, internet world, you don’t get to be
as big as I am without using food as some sort of drug to mask pain instead of
dealing with it. For the weight to come off and stay off you need to address
head on why you are fat. Growing up I endured abuse & rejection at home
(school & community). Food was my source of comfort – it was the only thing
that never rejected me. I had to address that, cry for many many days (I
actually had to teach myself to cry because I taught myself to stop crying when
I was eleven as that was the only way that my abuser would feel like she won,
when I was started to cry. When I didn’t cry, it meant that she didn’t win, she
is not breaking me. Little did I know the effects would follow me into my adult
life) and grieve the many times I was hurt as a child/teenager. I fought with
God about why did that have to happen to me. All I can come up with is that He
knows the bigger picture and if I can help just one person to get through their
abuse and show them that there is more to life than the abuse then I would have
done my purpose in life. I had to face
the pain head on and realise that the pain of all the crap will not kill me.
Believe it or not I did not die from facing the pain. It sucked but I got
through it. Lastly, I had to take responsibility of where I am not blame it on
genetics or abuse or that the price of petrol is ridiculous or that cockroaches
multiply at an astronomical rate or that men are from Mars and women are from
Venus. Now it is on to the next chapter in my book of awesomeness.
So it’s almost two years since I moved to JHB & I still
haven’t accomplished getting on to radio & theatre. I have three months to
really make moves.
Boys happened. Ugh. Assholes. That part wasn’t epic. I’m so
over ‘overgrown’ boys. They could be in their late thirties but they will still
act like boys. I want a man not a boy. That’s as much time I am going to spend
on this stupid subject BOYS *insertappropriateexpletivehere
2015…the best is yet to come. Watch this space.
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